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a lawyer, a writer, a philosopher, a believer in life, in love, in all things good and beautiful.

Sunday, 15 November 2015

Self Love is the greatest; You can't be Perfect, but you can Grow.



They say the best feeling in life is being in love with another But I beg to disagree. I believe the best feeling in life is waking up one day and realising things are different now, looking back at your past and being able to count on your finger tips how much you have changed. Digging into buried dirts of your life and seeing there's nothing there that hurts you so badly any more.

It doesn't matter that you were once an alcoholic, once so depressed, once got yourself into some messed up shit, once so filled with hate, anger, pain, mistrust, bitterness; Once so selfish, hot tempered, unforgiving; Once so emotionally insecured, low self esteemed. Truth is we all have our demons. Things we battle with in the four corners of our own little world, while we smile to the outside world and act like all is well. Things that slip out every once in a while and unleash itself on people that got too close, some of our loved ones, and other people we didn't love so much.

I believe the best feeling in this life is getting to that stage where you realize you have taken control of your life, tamed the demon within. You ain't perfect but you have fought the good fight, you have grown. Yes sir, the best feeling in life for me is knowing that somehow in this troubled world, you have finally discovered love within yourself.

Tuesday, 10 November 2015

Memoirs of an Inspired life: MY LIFE, MY LESSONS

Memoirs of an Inspired life: MY LIFE, MY LESSONS: I have come to realise in Life that the things that seem easiest are the most difficult things to do. I saw that in the simplest there are the strongest mystery.

MY LIFE, MY LESSONS

I have come to realise in Life that the things that seem easiest are the most difficult things to do.

I saw that in the simplest things there are the strongest mystery.

I looked at the stupidest things in life, and realised they hold the deepest truth.

I begin to realise that fear is the greatest obstacle to success and when you learn to do that which you fear the most, you can do anything.
As I grow, I saw that saying you Love someone and actually loving them are two different things.

I realised in love, when you are in the deepest pain, it is better to be silent, because if your love wasn't enough, why will your words matter?

I realised that the sweetest moments can cause so much sadness when they become memories, yet we cherish them

I looked at the Future and I saw that it is always beautiful when we dream about it but can be pale when we are living it.

Then I realised, life is what it is, some questions are meant to be unanswered, some futures are meant to be unlived, some fears are meant to be unconquered, and sometimes promises of love are meant to be broken.