Some days ago, I got chatting with a friend of mine and from the conversation, a simple truth dawned on me. Most relationships end because some people want to be dating and single at the same time. They have heard the saying you can't eat your cake and have it, yet they wave it aside, eat it they will and have it they must. So even though there is someone in their life who they are supposed to share a part of themselves with, they share as it pleases them and hold back as much as they can.
The guy still want to go partying every weekend instead of considering the girlfriend who would like to spend some alone time with him sometimes. The girl still want to go clubbing with those male friends hanging around for a chance to get underneath instead of keeping them at bay and focusing on her man. The guy still want to keep his side chics and when his gf shows concerns she is too emotional and insecured. The girl still want to keep her sugar daddies and when the guy won't have any of such he wants to control her. At the end of the day, the relationship becomes a nightmare. Both parties are stuck in it, they want to stay and yet want to leave, contradicted contradictions and somehow in this confusion someone always get hurt.
People always talk about how love is cruel but I do not think love is the problem. Its people who aint prepared for love that's the problem.
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