When they love you back

When we are love with someone, we notice their flaws, we notice the things
they do that doesn’t seem right..and somehow we believe we can make them change.
We believe our love can make them have a rethink and start doing things right.
So I see people struggling every day to change their partner..trying to get them
 to be more committed, more loving, more caring, faithful, stop flirting, drop bad
 habits, focused on the relationship .But I have come to realize it is an act of folly
 to believe someone will change cause you love them, NO..they may admire
your love,adore it, appreciate it even but  what  changes people is when they love you back.